Here's an article with some really good summer camp options, including sleep away camps. Could be helpful
http://www.disabled-world.com/entertainment/camps/special-needs-camps.php
Special Needs Camps Serve as Important Complement to Home and School.
As an eight-year-old, Eric Biskin wasn't -- to put it mildly --
big into sports. "This is a kid who doesn't like to move," says Eric's
father, Bruce Biskin. "He could focus on Nintendo for hours. What he
doesn't do, to the extreme, is any kind of physical activity."
That's not particularly unusual for a kid like Eric, now 15, who has been diagnosed with ADHD and Asperger's syndrome. What's interesting is what happened next.
In previous summers, Eric's parents had sent him to day camps, but
they weren't a good fit -- they were a little too heavy on the
athletics for his personality; the pool was a little bit too cold. So
one summer the Biskins decided to enroll Eric at Summit Camp in Wayne
County, Penn. Summit is a summer sleepaway camp for kids aged 8-17 who
have what the camp's director, Gene Bell, calls "attention issues" --
these, he says, include Attention Deficit Disorder (ADD and/or ADHD),
Asperger's syndrome, awkward social skills, verbal or non-verbal
learning disabilities, and mild emotional concerns.
A few weeks into the session, Biskin and his wife, Barbara Gronsky,
visited Eric at camp and saw something they couldn't believe: "For the
first time, he jumped into the lake and swam," Biskin recalls. "He
couldn't wait to show us. It was like butter melting inside my heart.
Back home we couldn't even get him in a pool."
At Summit, Biskin says, "Eric felt a sense of safety, a sense of
fun. He got to try out stuff in a very encouraging environment that we
could never get him to do at home."
The Biskins' story is affecting but not unique. Indeed, many
families with kids who have attention issues or an Autism Spectrum
Disorder (autism, Asperger's, Pervasive Developmental Disorder) have
had similar experiences at special-needs camps, whose 24-hour-a-day,
seven-days-a-week nature sometimes leads to breakthroughs that just
aren't possible in school environments. "They do things (at camp) that
typically our kids don't do during an academic year," Bell says.
The National Institutes of Health estimates that the number of
school-aged children with ADD/ADHD is between 3-5 percent. A recent
study by the Mayo Clinic suggests the number may be as high as 7.5
percent. According to the Centers for Disease Control, the diagnosis of
ADHD increased an average of 3 percent annually between 1997 and 2006.
Further, as of 2006, 4.5 million children aged 5-17 years had been
diagnosed with ADHD.
Further, the CDC estimates that one out of every 110 children in the United States has an Autism Spectrum Disorder.
While homes and schools remain the primary centers for educating
these children, experts say summer programs can serve as an important
complement.
"ADHD is often misunderstood; subsequently many individuals
diagnosed with ADHD are treated as if they are willfully refusing to
engage in task completion, or are being 'just lazy,' unmotivated and
even uncaring," says Michael Manos, who heads the Center for Pediatric
Behavioral Health at Cleveland Clinic Children's Hospital. "This is
usually not the case, for children with ADHD often are quite energetic
and highly focused on restricted interests. This way of finding the
defect in the child, that is, calling them 'lazy' often prevents
children from truly being served."
He adds: "There are teaching and behavioral strategies that really
work for children diagnosed with ADHD. Many times medicine and
behavioral interventions are not applied in a systematic way; so many
children do not receive optimal treatment and do not have the
opportunity to truly change their circumstances."
This may be so, but there is disagreement among some educators and
camp professionals over whether kids with attention issues (and other
special needs) are better off in special camps or in traditional summer
camps that, experts say, are increasingly able to accommodate many of
them.
"The debate about mainstreaming is far and wide and very hot in the
educational world right now," says Elana Naftalin-Kelman, who runs the
Tikvah program at Camp Ramah in Ojai, Calif. As a special-needs camp
housed within a mainstream Jewish camp, Tikvah represents a middle
ground between the two approaches. And Naftalin-Kelman says even she
sees "advantages and disadvantages to the type of program I run."
"The benefit of a special program is that you'll usually get
staffing that better understands the needs of the child," says Gary
Schulman, who runs New York's Resources for Children with Special
Needs, a not-for-profit referral organization that for the last 25
years has run an annual special-needs camp fair. "The curriculum itself
might be more tailored to these children's needs. Most children with
disabilities, if they're in a special-needs program (in school) have
what's called an Individualized Educational Program. Special-needs
camps are more willing to look at that plan and are more willing to
follow through on it. Consistency is extremely important -- it helps
them when they get back to school. "
Still, says Naftalin-Kelman, special camps aren't right for every
special-needs child. Tikvah, for example, cannot accept kids who have
"severe behavior issues" such as harming themselves or others. But
other children, she says, can grow immensely there. "I really believe
that it's right for some kids and not right for some kids," she says.
"It's based on the needs of each child."
Indeed, says child-adolescent psychiatrist Larry Silver, the
decision about whether or not to send a child to a special-needs camp
should be based on the specific child. "If they have ADHD and
medication helps them control it, they could probably go to any camp
that has the capacity to monitor medication," says Silver, a clinical
professor of psychiatry at the Georgetown University Medical Center and
author of The Misunderstood Child. "If they have ADHD and they're not
taking medication" or they have problems with time management or social
skills, then they might benefit more from special camps.
Many ADHD kids have been "excluded so much from social interactions
at school that they don't really know how to be accepted," Silver says.
Further, he adds, many of them have motor problems. "Typical camp is a
lot of baseball, basketball, soccer," he says, "and they don't do very
well with that."
Special camps, he says, might offer alternatives, such as swimming
and hiking, and might also help campers begin building social skills.
That's the case at Summit Camp, where Eric Biskin learned to swim.
Among the camp's offerings is a travel program for kids aged 15-19.
This summer, participants will travel from Vancouver to Halifax by
plane and train. Later, the camp will offer a bus tour of Colonial
America. Finally, there will be an ecology and nature tour of Costa
Rica.
"Each camper is unique and has his or her own challenges that we
work to overcome in order to meet the basic needs for acceptance,
recognition and respect," says Bell, who has been involved full-time in
Special Education since 1972 and with Summit Camp since 1999. "But
throughout all of the various sessions and activities, certain goals
are constant -- we look to establish and reinforce feelings of success,
confidence, enthusiasm and self-worth in all of our campers. These are
the traits that they may not attain in the normal social environments,
and we can fill those voids."
Establishing those traits is done through traditional camping
activities -- sports, arts and crafts, hiking, and other camp programs.
Yet, each program is geared towards developing the social interaction
skills of the camper and allowing them to identify their special
interests. Summit Camp has 250 staff to supervise and nurture the
maximum 300 campers it hosts at any given time. Bell says at an average
age of 22, counselors are more mature than those at a typical camp.
There is a group of staff members who act as guidance counselors. The
admissions director is a clinical social worker. And while most
mainstream camps have counselor-to-camper ratios ranging from 1:6 to
1:10, Summit camp and others like it boast a ratio of 1:2.
"Our camp is a therapeutic milieu," he says. "We have a caring and
nurturing staff who are able to identify the challenges that our
children have and are able to work with their abilities as opposed to
their disabilities."
Many special-needs camps boast similar benefits for their campers,
but the focus can shift from camp to camp. Some put the emphasis on
improving academic performance; others, such as Camp Northwood in
Remsen, NY, highlight social skills. The Talisman Programs in Zirconia,
NC, promotes self-regulation and self-direction among its campers.
Quest Camp in Alamo, Calif. offers a therapeutic intervention program.
Whatever the focus, educators warn that quality can vary. They
encourage parents to do their research before choosing a camp for their
child.
"Like every other program, there's quality and there are some that
are not so good," says Schulman, of Resources for Children with Special
Needs. "It's up to the parent really to visit the program, maybe the
summer before. Ask for a video. Call professionals like myself. Ask to
speak to other parents."
Parents also can do a significant amount of research online. The Web
site www.4-adhd.com lists summer camps for kids with ADHD, as does the
American Camp Associations site, http://www.acacamps.org/, and
www.MySummerCamps.com. Further information can be obtained from CHADD
(Children and Adults with Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder),
www.chadd.org; the ADDA (Attention Deficit Disorder Association),
www.add.org; the National Resource Center on AD/HD, www.help4adhd.org;
and ADDitude Magazine, http://www.additudemag.com.
"Because your child has a label like ADHD or ADD doesn't mean your
child must go to a special camp," Schulman says. He points out that
under the Americans with Disabilities Act, special-needs children are
entitled to be given reasonable accommodations in regular programs.
Still, he says, special-needs camps are beneficial for "children with
more severe behavioral problems who need a much higher
staff-to-children ratio."
"If there's a behavioral crisis that takes place, they're less likely to just send the child home," he says.
After seven years at Summit Camp, Eric Biskin's parents think it's
time for him to learn that "Summit is not the only place in the world."
This summer, as last, he'll be spending half of his time in a more
mainstream camp -- a situation his dad says was made possible by his
years at camp.
"He's more confident in his social skills now," Biskin says. "He
realizes that he can do things that he's afraid to do. Getting him over
the fear so that he actually does them is still an issue -- but now
when you tell him that if you give yourself the chance to learn
something or do something then you can do it, he believes you. And he
didn't believe that before."